Valentine's Date Advice for Seniors

(datelists.com - February 2, 2005) Cupid doesn't discriminate and for thousands of single Seniors who will be celebrating Valentine's Day without a significant other this year, Date.com, one of the leading online dating services, has pulled together a list of tips to help make this Valentine's Day special for single Seniors.

"When it comes to age, love definitely knows no boundaries," said Brenda Ross, Relationship Advisor for Date.com. "For those who are single, and especially those who have recently experienced the loss of a significant other, the pressure of a romantic-filled evening can be avoided by doing fun activities with friends and close family."

So, make it a Monday Night to remember and hit the local community center's Valentine's Day dance AFTER the early bird special. If dine and dance isn't your cup of tea, try the following:

Poker Night - Whether your social circle consists of all women, all men, or a nice mix, why not throw a poker party (or whatever game you most enjoy) for the gang? Don't forget the spiked punch cocktails.

Private Yoga Classes - Take this opportunity to love your body and hire a private instructor to come to your home, gather with some friends, and have a relaxing night of centered breathing and chanting. You'll feel exhilarated afterwards!

Recapture Your Youth - Get a facial. Join a gym. Take a tennis class. Try a new hair color. Soak in the whirlpool. Grab a drink with friends at a nice bar. Go on... hit a concert!

Turn Grief into a New Beginning - If you are single because of a recent loss, make this a special day to remember your loved one. Plant a tree in his or her honor, and tie a red ribbon around it every Valentine's Day in remembrance.

Organize Something Honorable - Spend your Valentine's Day with a group of friends doing volunteer work. Whether it's dishing out food to those in need, or visiting patients at the local Children's Hospital, you will be doing a great deed. Who knows, you might enjoy it so much that it becomes a regular part of your routine!

Generational Gift Giving - Prefer to spend the evening alone? Why not mark the day and use your computer to make a family cookbook of favorite recipes that you've collected over the years, and/or those that have been handed down by different family members. Wrap the cookbooks with bright red ribbon and give them out as presents to your children/grandchildren. It's the perfect gift for the next generation!

Tired of being Alone? Adopt a Pet - Not only do pets decrease blood pressure and make wonderful companions, but a welcome perk is that they will love you unconditionally! Take it one step further and adopt a rescued animal - you'll both be glad you did!

Valentine's Day Dance - Many local community centers host dances and socials for Seniors on Valentine's Day. It's a great opportunity to get all dressed up and meet other singles in your community. Men, if you're lucky, you might even be asked to dance during ladies choice!

Babysitter in Shining Armor - Looking to get a great Mother's/Father's Day present this year? Call up your children and their spouses and offer to take care of the kids so they can go celebrate. We guarantee they'll pay it forward this spring!

And for those who view February 14th as just another day on the calendar:

Piggy Bank - Always looking at the bottom line and not interested in celebrating? Think of all the money you are saving by not buying flowers, candy and jewelry, and just go about your daily routine!